I once read an article describing this society as the “orgasmic society.” People are pre-occupied with achieving orgasms.
Technically, the male action is just ejaculation. When the precious semen comes out.
For women, there are many types of women, some orgasmic, some multiple orgasmic, most orgasm only once in a while, some almost never.
Important. Women should never orgasm ahead of their man if you want to become pregnant.
The action of orgasm is for the cervix to come down like an elephant trunk and pick up any semen in the vagina.
If the semen is already in place, when the man ejaculates ahead, semen is picked up and more are retained, less discharge later.
The other action after female orgasm is that the cervix puts up a mucus plug on the entrance. Any semen later deposited is blocked by the mucus plug; lessening your probability of conception.
The rule of thumb is: Let your man ejaculate first. If you can achieve mutual orgasm at the same time, good. If not, you can stimulate the woman to achieve orgasm later or she will not need to achieve an orgasm and that is just fine.
