Back to the basics: hot sex for those who have forgotten
This is a follow up to my previous article of how to get back that horny feeling.
As discussed, no real desire means ho hum sex, and most probably no baby. How to heat up again? Here are the basics again.
Hot sex is in the mind, there is a build up to it.
You flirt with one another. You are pleasant to one another. You make jokes, some titillating. There is some touching, some hugging, light kisses.
There has to be an air of spontenouity somehow.
Take this example:
Days of no sex since her period began… some hugs, some late night touchings, but she turned him down every time.
Then, at the time he knew she was fertile, he fondled her that night, but they did not engage in sex.
At about 3pm after a meeting with a client, he texted her: “I’m done with my last meeting… are you on the way home?”
She texts back: “I’m on the highway now…”
He makes his move: “Meet me at the motel midway… I’ll take the train.”
There was a build up. There was the suddenness. There was excitement. A rendezvous. And when he met her at her car, they drove up to a motel “suite” this time instead of a regular room. The suite had a theme, a waterfall, a round bed, a luxurious bathroom, a jaccuzi… the works.
And they had fantastic sex.
Probably baby making sex.
Which has obviously a higher percentage of success than your cell phone alarm clock sounding off to wake you up at 5am to do the deed…. ugh!
