Archive for July, 2006

How to get back that horny feeling

Thursday, July 13th, 2006

Infertility is hard because it deadens the sensations. After a few months or years you get sick of the whole thing and even give up sex for months at a time. This is a good thing. A time to heal. A time to recover your health.

I say health because it is easy to overcome the mechanical failures with some simple tips I gave at www.fertilityhelp.net

Get healthy, hire a nutritionist - go organic, hire a gym instructor, make that body beautiful, sleep and rest well, no alcohol, no smoking, no softdrinks, no milk, stop all medications… no pharmaceutical drugs… you must be clean to be fertile.
In the meantime, concentrate on your work, on your other friends, your hobbies.

Take some time off between one another. Try sleeping on different beds or different rooms. Long for one another.

Then when you get those same kinds of feelings just like the first time you kissed way back in college… there… those are the correct times to have sex.

Stop counting on your period. Let healthy nature take its course.

Have sex when you feel like it.

Sunday, July 2nd, 2006

That is correct. After doing all the health stuff, de-stressing stuff, and laying off sex for some time; you will find your horniness growing back to a point where you actually WANT to have healthy, life creating, sex. Throw away that ovulation calendar for the moment. Healthy people subconsciously engineer their own ovulations in time with anticipations of sex.

The Vegetable Gang

Sunday, July 2nd, 2006

I would like to share with you a child’s book I recently bought: The Vegetable Gang.

It helps kids hooked on junkfood to respect and eat their vegetables.  I know many infertile people who need this.  You can order directly from the publisher.  It has both english and filipino translations.